Instead, we believe men simply interpret these interactions differently than women do," said Lydon. Using virtual reality scenarios in the last experiment, the researchers wanted to see if 40 men could learn not to flirt when mingling with attractive women if they formed a plan or strategy beforehand.
The researchers prompted half the male subjects in this experiment to visualize being approached by an attractive woman. They were then instructed to write down a strategy to protect their relationship.
These men were more likely to distance themselves from an attractive woman in the subsequent virtual reality scenarios. Lydon says women, on the other hand, don't need to be trained to withhold any reactions when approached by attractive men. The success rate of such strategies may not be percent but it is likely to be significantly higher than if the man was not made aware of the specific consequences of his actions.
Materials provided by McGill University. Note: Content may be edited for style and length. Science News. The blame-women bunch constantly gets confused on this point. It would be stupid for me to walk through a dangerous neighborhood fanning wads of cash. Yet if someone robs me, while it may be a result of my stupidity, it is not my sin. Second, common sense about what to wear is a separate issue. Of course there are. But of course evil men also entrap and seduce and force women. We need to sort out the cause and effect in this and quit mucking about in slippery, nonsensical arguments.
Men, we live in a world where some people dress revealingly in public. There will always be women or images of women that will tempt you. Women are responsible for how they dress, but not for your thoughts, your temptations, or what sins you choose to do. No one can cause you to sin. That is up to you. So buck up, men, and take responsibility for your own temptations!
Search for:. Toggle navigation. No Comments modesty , sexuality Commentary. But while that urge goes back to our beginnings of a species, the ability to use self-control is relatively new, perhaps dating back no more than 50, years. Perhaps in another 50, years, the self-control impulse in men will strengthen to the point where it can override the I-want-her impulse.
But of course, that provides little solace to a woman whose mate is straying. He may very well be doing just that—and failing.
Is it about instant and temporary gratification? Or is it about the long-term? I just make sure to tell her that I have certain needs. And I communicate those needs honestly and openly. I let her know that I am much more likely to resist temptations if I am getting sexual fulfillment at home. But she also knows her limits. She respects my privacy without making me feel completely abandoned or forgotten about. But whenever I feel really tempted to cheat on my girl, I just think about disgusting things like poop, vomit, or boogers.
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